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But, the reality is that you’ll encounter complications in all relationships. Yet all studies show that relationships and social skills are at an all-time low. Because 97% of men lack mental and emotional control. The man who fails with BPD women sets himself up for failure. Because you can avoid 90% of the problems you experience. My goal with this website and my training is to teach you from my experience. Instead of the man having control over his mind, the mind controls him! I know every article on the internet tells you to run from borderline women, but I do things differently around these parts.My relationship history is full of attractive BPD women. But, I made it out alive and have managed to remain amazing friends with many women who (most likely) have BPD.I've been out of the relationship with the borderline for nearly 2-1/2 years. They're mostly gone, but I need to admit that I still carry big scars from the relationship.I definitely have suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder after the BPD relationship. All the accusations that she made about me took something out of me.Everything that she said about me, ways that she acted, things that she said, hurt bad. I'm not trying to whine here, but she said, usually during her drinking binges, things like, "the only reason that I'm with you is because I don't have to work." Ouch. Now that I'm thinking about it, the relationship with the borderline was similar to my ex wife's but it was just amplified.
But, you never hear about them because they’re too busy enjoying themselves. This is because people turn to internet forums when they’re struggling. For the inexperienced man, BPD relationships are complicated. We are safer and healthier than any other time in history. The whole entire point of changing your mindsets is this: Poor mindsets lead to a lack of mental and emotional control.
Immature, inexperienced men will blame their BPD girlfriend for everything.
Instead of looking within, it’s easy to place blame on others.
But real, actual love and compatibility is impossible without strong, independent mindsets. This is why the BPD label doesn’t matter at the end of the day. Understanding this fact is all you need to be successful. When she pulls away, she wants to see how you’ll react. But, this week she doesn’t have those same feelings for whatever reason.
Now I’m not going to sit here and say that you’re 100% responsible for your relationship not working. However, understand that you are 100% responsible for yourself. The attitude you see all around you is to point fingers and blame others. This is why a healthy, fulfilling relationship is a rare sight. Therefore, I focus on teaching the mindsets that are best for BPD relationships. This is true even if she doesn’t know it on a subconscious level.
Now, I'm nearly ten years out of that life, but that one was pretty frigging traumatic. Either way, they both said things that were way hurtful, way mean, way too much for one to say to another lover.