Insecurity is an inner feeling of being threatened and/or inadequate in some way. But while it’s quite normal to have feelings of self-doubt once in a while, insecurity can sabotage your success in life and can be particularly damaging to your intimate relationships.Chronic insecurity robs you of your peace and prevents you from being able to engage with your partner in a relaxed and authentic way.If finding this kind of trust in yourself seems very difficult on your own, you may wish to work with a professional who can help you learn how to do this.It's important to remember that no one is perfect—we all come with some baggage.Take stock of your value When you feel insecure, you are often focused on something you feel is lacking about you.
When you trust yourself, feeling secure is almost a guarantee.
Ways to maintain your independence include: Making time for your own friends, interests, and hobbies, maintaining financial independence, and having self-improvement goals that are separate from your relationship goals. Trust yourself to know that you won’t ignore your inner voice when it tells you that something isn’t right.