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She has demonstrated already that she doesn’t know how to effectively use contraception OR otherwise doesn’t make good choices because she made children with the wrong guy (most likely)*, and has demonstrated that she WANTS to be a mother as she kept the child.
Once a woman is a mother, she is less reluctant to avoid pregnancy.
PLEASE NOTE: If you want to comment, do so here because this entry already had hundreds of comments.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.
Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.
That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.
Even if you were to marry her, the child(ren) will always come first, whereas being with a childless woman means YOU come first. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.
An unmarried mother should put her child(ren) first.
The child is already dealing with not having a mother and father married to each other and living together, and needs parental attention.
Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriage.
Conversely, here are the downsides of dating a single mother, in no particular order:1) The kid(s) will always come first for her, and that’s the way it should be.
A woman without a child has much more freedom to be available for you.
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I think it holds up well and is highly relevant in today's world.
Even if a biodad isn't in the picture right now, he can always resurface and wreak havoc unless he's dead.